Why Is God Jealous?

Some years ago Oprah Winfrey was asked a question on television about her spiritual journey. Among other things, she indicated that a particular stumbling block for her was when her pastor claimed that God was a “jealous” God. This was in conflict with her view of God of as all-loving. She seemed to bristle at the idea of God being jealous of her, or anyone for that matter. You can view the clip of her statement here: A Jealous God?

She said, “something didn’t feel right in my spirit” when her pastor said that. However, the Bible clearly teaches that God is a jealous God. Exodus 20:5 states, "You shall not bow down to them [other gods] or serve them, for I the LORD your God am a jealous God." How are we to understand God's jealousy when the Bible also says that jealousy is a sin (Galatians 5:20)? Isn't this a contradiction? No, because the jealousy that pertains to God is not the same as the kind we display as human beings.

The key is context. In Exodus 20, God revealed the Ten Commandments to the people of Israel. He commanded allegiance and worship to Him alone. He would not tolerate the worship of other gods (a practice common in Egypt and other nations). God was "jealous" in the sense that He expected full devotion, not merely a partial, lukewarm commitment. Worship belongs to God, and He is right to be "jealous" of it.

In other contexts, jealousy is listed as a sin that we as human beings are to avoid. In these cases, jealousy refers to being resentful over something another person has. It could be a material possession ("I am jealous of his Lexus"), a physical attribute ("I am jealous of her slim figure"), or a special ability ("I am jealous of the way they can sing"). Such jealousy is often associated with suspicion, envy, and rivalry, and it is always sinful. Instead, we are called us to be content in all circumstances. The Apostle Paul wrote, "I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want" (Philippians 4:11-12).

Jealousy and envy as human sin is evident in the earliest pages of Scripture. Cain killed Abel because he was jealous that his brother’s sacrifice to God was acceptable, and his own was not (Genesis 4). Later in Genesis, Joseph's brothers were sinfully jealous (or envious) of Joseph (Genesis 37:11). They saw Joseph as a rival for the father's attention, and their sin of jealously led to other sins. They sold their own brother into slavery and lied to their father. Years later, these brothers felt guilty for their shameful acts that resulted from jealousy.

Yes, God is a jealous God. But the question that makes God’s jealousy different than ours is: “Why?” The reason God is jealous is because He will not share His praise with another: "I am the LORD; that is my name; my glory I give to no other, nor my praise to carved idols" (Isaiah 42:8). God carefully maintains and protects what is rightly His. This is divine jealousy, and it is worlds apart from the type of sinful jealousy that causes people to envy, suspect, and resent others.

Human jealous is rampant and dangerously so. It was out of envy that Jesus was falsely accused by the religious authorities of crimes that sent Him to the cross (Matthew 27:18). The spirit of envy is one of the classic signs of human sinfulness (Romans 1:29). The spirit of envy is numbered among the works of the flesh that turns a person from God (Galatians 5:21).

Envy is numbered among the deadly sins because it can kill you. It can kill your joy, your hope, your peace, and your capacity to love. It can kill your faith and the sense of the nearness of Christ. It can kill your will to believe and your motivation to obey. It can kill your sense of fulfillment because, no matter what you do, someone has done more, or done it better, or done it faster, or done it with greater recognition and praise. Left unchecked, envy can kill everything that makes you a ‘human’ being. Like a weed, it must be identified and uprooted immediately before it spreads and chokes the life out of us. Envy rots the bones.